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Haili Blassingame

Biography

Haili Blassingame

Haili Blassingame is a producer for the NPR program “1A.” She has written for publications like The New Republic and The New York Times, in which she published the viral “My Choice Isn’t Marriage or Loneliness” for “Modern Love.” She was one of 12 essayists selected to write a follow-up piece for the column’s 20th anniversary in October 2024. She’s also been a guest on the “Modern Love” podcast, NPR’s “Life Kit,” and NPR’s “1A.” She previously worked on NPR’s “Code Switch” and “Weekend Edition.” She is pursuing an MFA in creative writing from American University. She lives in Washington, DC.

Haili Blassingame

Books by Haili Blassingame

by Haili Blassingame - Fiction, Romance

It’s the fall of 2024, and 24-year-old Cat isn’t asking for too much: all she wants is three boyfriends, to write her little novels, and to survive another chaotic presidential election. She’s in an open relationship with her college sweetheart Jay, but nonmonogamy isn’t just a hot trend she’s trying. It’s her sliver of freedom in a world eager to wrestle it from her for being a Black woman going after what she wants with reckless abandon. While political tensions roil the campus where Cat is slowly earning her creative writing degree, she finds herself drawn to Jay’s best friend, Tristan, who’s smart, super hot, and…in a monogamous relationship. And then she meets Tristan’s girlfriend, Nia, a captivating art student with her own gravitational pull. Friends and family urge her to just be happy with Jay, but Cat is determined to have it all --- or blow up her life trying.