April 2023

THINGS I WISH I TOLD MY MOTHER is the kind of book that is a real treat. It has heart, soul, armchair travel and food. Both Susan Patterson and Susan DiLallo enjoyed life with their mothers, who lived well into their 90s. Susan Patterson mentioned one day that she had “things I wished I had told my mother.” And from there the idea was born.

She and Susan DiLallo decided to write a fictional title about a mother and daughter duo who are pretty much opposites. Laurie, who just landed a new client for her agency, is newly divorced and loves to try new things. Her mom is the famous “Dr. Liz,” an elegant perfectionist who is renowned and receives much praise wherever she goes. They embark on a trip to Paris and Norway (the latter is where Liz grew up).

The Parisian scenes will have you noting places to eat and things to see. Norway will give you a tug at the heartstrings as you see where Liz is from, which gives Laurie some insight into her. Liz and Laurie talk like never before, seeing each other more as equals and friends. And then there is a twist. Do not read the final chapters first.

The book may inspire you to pick up the phone and talk to your mom. Or your daughter. It reminds us all too well that life is short and will have you wondering if you really have maximized your time together.

It would make for a fun book group read, as I am sure it would spark stories to share, as well as a lively discussion of the book.