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The Vanishing Family: Love, Fate, and the Quest to End Dementia

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The Vanishing Family: Love, Fate, and the Quest to End Dementia

From the #1 New York Times bestselling author of HIDDEN VALLEY ROAD comes the heart-wrenching journey of a family facing an unthinkable destiny, whose flawed genetic code might hold the long-sought key to a cure for dementia.

In the idyllic American town of Pleasant Hills, Pennsylvania, there lived a family with nine siblings, the youngest a girl named Barb. As the older children headed off to college and started their lives, only Barb was home to see their beautiful, still-young mother fall under a gothic spell, changing into someone she didn’t recognize: withdrawn, neglectful, uncaring.

Thus begins THE VANISHING FAMILY, journalist Robert Kolker’s superb follow-up to HIDDEN VALLEY ROAD (“Deeply compassionate and chilling,” wrote The Washington Post). This family, we learn, has a genetic mutation that causes dementia, but with an especially cruel twist. As early as their forties, formerly loving parents and hard-driving executives will lose their jobs, have affairs, take up drinking --- shed all inhibitions and sense of responsibility --- and become people their families hardly know. Their former personalities seem to vanish --- and there is a 50-50 chance that it will happen to their children, too.

THE VANISHING FAMILY unfolds like a heartbreaking thriller as the siblings begin to realize that what happened to their mother is happening to them: first one, then two, three, four, and more begin to change. Sue, in search of a calling, finds her place in caring for the others. Barb sets out to find a cure. Alongside their story, Kolker weaves in the dramatic scientific fight against dementia; after decades of blind alleys, this this family’s rare form of FTD (frontotemporal dementia) might lead to a breakthrough in the prevention and treatment of all dementia --- including the scourge of Alzheimer’s disease.

Moving, intimate, unexpectedly hopeful and redemptive, THE VANISHING FAMILY is an enthralling narrative about one family’s fate, and a medical detective story that speaks to all of us who fear losing ourselves at the end.

The Vanishing Family: Love, Fate, and the Quest to End Dementia
by Robert Kolker

  • Publication Date: September 29, 2026
  • Genres: Biography, Nonfiction
  • Hardcover: 368 pages
  • Publisher: Doubleday
  • ISBN-10: 0385551037
  • ISBN-13: 9780385551038