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The Magical Language of Others: A Memoir

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The Magical Language of Others: A Memoir

We will look back at our time apart and laugh together and be sad, but we will have many stories. If you have no suffering, you have no story to tell --- isn’t it true?

THE MAGICAL LANGUAGE OF OTHERS is a powerful and aching love story in letters, from mother to daughter. After living in America for over a decade, Eun Ji Koh’s parents return to South Korea for work, leaving 15-year-old Eun Ji and her brother behind in California. Overnight, Eun Ji finds herself abandoned and adrift in a world made strange by her mother’s absence. Her mother writes letters, in Korean, over the years seeking forgiveness and love --- letters Eun Ji cannot fully understand until she finds them years later hidden in a box.

As Eun Ji translates the letters, she looks to history --- her grandmother Jun’s years as a lovesick wife in Daejeon, the horrors her grandmother Kumiko witnessed during the Jeju Island Massacre --- and to poetry, as well as her own lived experience to answer questions inside all of us. Where do the stories of our mothers and grandmothers end and ours begin? How do we find words --- in Korean, Japanese, English or any language --- to articulate the profound ways that distance can shape love? Eun Ji Koh fearlessly grapples with forgiveness, reconciliation, legacy and intergenerational trauma, arriving at insights that are essential reading for anyone who has ever had to balance love, longing, heartbreak and joy.

THE MAGICAL LANGUAGE OF OTHERS weaves a profound tale of hard-won selfhood and our deep bonds to family, place and language, introducing --- in Eun Ji Koh --- a singular, incandescent voice.

The Magical Language of Others: A Memoir
by E. J. Koh

  • Publication Date: January 19, 2021
  • Genres: Memoir, Nonfiction
  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Tin House Books
  • ISBN-10: 1951142276
  • ISBN-13: 9781951142278